but the girl was expressing fears aside from meeting Rosie?
being alone, booking a plane, riding the tube (train) ect, generally being by herself in a different setting she’s not used to.
but she has to suck it up or get over it because she’s just meeting regular people? come on guys, try to read things with an unbiased eye/mindset.
Being alone in another city/country is very much a real fear and very understandable.
alright that was the last ask i answer.
I’m wasn’t trying to start fandom wank lol.
Thank you. And yeah she was being dismissive of a real persons anxieties.
I understand that she has her own anxieties but she should have made a separate post about it, something along the lines of ‘guys I get some of you who are coming are scared but you’re not alone, im right there with you’.
Angie has expressed how she feels and I agree to be fair.
intent does not negate the fact that she did make it about her.
The only reason I didn’t say more was because I do understand that she gets messages like this constantly and she might be tired of them or w.e.
But she just made that person who messaged her uncomfortable as well as other people who might’ve been on the fence about going because of serious ACTUAL ANXIETIES. Which she completely dismissed by saying ‘suck it up’.
It was just really uncool.
so in a sense i did give her break by not saying more
Ok man listen up.
You think YOU are scared how the SHIT do you think I feel?! I have to get up on a freaking stage in front of 600 people and I have anxiety and tonnes of other stuff going on right now. I have to take medicine to walk down the street to get to work LET ALONE GET ON A STAGE AND TALK TO HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE.
I am literally preparing to physically shit my pants in front of everyone and then slip in my own shit as I attempt to run off the stage crying. Seriously. I AM FUCKING SCARED.
I stood up in front of the 27 people I work with yesterday and nearly puked.
I USED TO BE A NORMAL PERSON WITH AVERAGE TO MODERATE CONFIDENCE WHERE HAS THIS GONE AND WHY HASNT IT COME BACK TO ME?!
So, if you wanna see me and all the other sexy lesbians, suck it up and thank God that no one is making you speak publicly on stage.
Apologies for my lack of sympathy. Maybe we can cuddle together at the end. Xxxx
wow rosie that’s really not cool. Making it about you.
Instead of being understanding and sharing a mutual fear of the event, you’re just like ‘suck it up’?